what is love?

what is love? when are we suitable to go into a relationship? well, here are my answers. of course, u may not agree with me, but just my 2-cents worth.

Firstly, go read 1 Corinthians 13. whole chapter on what is love. love is also a commitment, a choice. u can choose to love or not to love. it is not just based on feelings. feelings may die away, but u can still choose to love. i used to think that love is just about feelings, but now i realised that i'm wrong. love is much more than that. love is about commitment. just is marriage. of course, you must choose the correct person to go into a relationship. you have to choose someone u understand very well, can get along well with, etc etc. u know what i mean...

u know, we should only go into a relationship when we see marriage as a potential result of it. if you're not willing to get married, or dun see yourself getting married to your boyfriend/girlfriend, then i think you shouldn't go into the relationship. going into a relationship and then breaking up. what's the point of it? it just makes u feel sad n all when u break up. i think it's very irresponsible to go into a relationship without thinking of the consequences of it. if just going into a relationship to satisfy your own desires, that's immature and selfish.

i've gone through some really rough patches in relationships, but now when i look back, i want to thank God for it. i've learnt alot, and now i know that i was too immature in the past. maybe i still am now. but i'm not worried at all now. i know that when the time comes, God will provide for me.