what is love?

what is love? when are we suitable to go into a relationship? well, here are my answers. of course, u may not agree with me, but just my 2-cents worth.

Firstly, go read 1 Corinthians 13. whole chapter on what is love. love is also a commitment, a choice. u can choose to love or not to love. it is not just based on feelings. feelings may die away, but u can still choose to love. i used to think that love is just about feelings, but now i realised that i'm wrong. love is much more than that. love is about commitment. just is marriage. of course, you must choose the correct person to go into a relationship. you have to choose someone u understand very well, can get along well with, etc etc. u know what i mean...

u know, we should only go into a relationship when we see marriage as a potential result of it. if you're not willing to get married, or dun see yourself getting married to your boyfriend/girlfriend, then i think you shouldn't go into the relationship. going into a relationship and then breaking up. what's the point of it? it just makes u feel sad n all when u break up. i think it's very irresponsible to go into a relationship without thinking of the consequences of it. if just going into a relationship to satisfy your own desires, that's immature and selfish.

i've gone through some really rough patches in relationships, but now when i look back, i want to thank God for it. i've learnt alot, and now i know that i was too immature in the past. maybe i still am now. but i'm not worried at all now. i know that when the time comes, God will provide for me.

final fantasy...

have u watched Final Fantasy: Advent Children? if u have not, go watch it!! damn cool! damn nice!! ya since i watched it, now very into final fantasy 7. now playing it on my pc. lol~ damn...if this carries on, i'm done for. exams just 2 weeks away...

i getting more n more slack. almost stopped going for all lectures, only got go psychology... still trying to cut down on my gaming...

sianz...now my skin all peeling le. sunburnt on sat at sentosa. think next time really must bring some sunblock... hmm... hmm...

yay! i'm in othello and billiard team!!

Praise the Lord!! i'm accepted into the hall olympiad othello and billiard team!! wooh, must be God's grace man. seriously didnt really expect myself to get into both, cos for both i only went for one of the two days of selection. and then for othello, played 2 games, 1 i win but the other i kena thrashed lo. for billiard is worse. 2 games lose both. wow, God really works in His special ways!

hope wont be like in jam band, where i'm the worst. haha... but then again...i think there's a very very very high possibility tat i'll be the worst in the othello n billiard team... oh well... i'll just have to work harder then...